songtothesiren Profile Information

Whisper words of wisdom....
Age 31 From Raleigh, North Carolina - Online - 2 days ago
TS/TV/TG Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
I feel like I have no way to make what I'm about to say sound anything other than sordid, however, this in the Internet and I've seen a lot worse.... haha. That being said, I'm married and have a spouse who is having ongoing fidelity issues and I'm not entirely sure what my plan is, at this point, but I feel like I'm at my wit's end and, at the very least, it'd be nice to have some one to talk to (in general). I know I've seen a lot of other profiles for people with marital issues, so, perhaps I could find some one in a similar situation. I'm not interested in dating or sleeping with any one but just having some one fun to chat with or to even go out and do things would be a nice distraction (here and there) from the chaos in my life. I don't really have any friends to get out with (other than co-workers) and I'd rather keep my private life away from my work environment. I've used this site in the past and it's been the most successful and best experience that I've had using a matching site. I'm hoping it might be fruitful now. I'm a Billing Manager of a medical practice in Raleigh and it's a pretty flexible postion, so, I have a lot of free time during my work day and in my off hours. Hopefully I'm not being judged too harshly :P.....
Sign  
Libra

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Average
My Height Is  
5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Married
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is  
Smile
Body Art  
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is  
Silver
I Have One Or More Of These  
Dog
Willing To Relocate  
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Administrative / Management
My Job Title Is  
Billing Manager
I Live  
With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Outcast
My Social Behavior Is  
Boisterous, Loud, Flirtatious
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Family, Dining, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Shopping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
For me, an ideal first date could be any date where the person who asked me out put thought and consideration into showing me a good time. I like going new places and seeing new things - showing me a good, local bar/restaurant is always a treat. Something unexpected is usually fun and memorable. As long as the date allows for us to have a good conversation to get to know one another and we're not struggling to find things to say, I would call that ideal :).
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Many things - there isn't one in particular thing I've been dying to try that I haven't, I just like to be able to have new experiences in life and be able to do anything I haven't done at least once.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Troublemaker, Goofy, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Not Religious
I Attend Services  
Never
My Political Views Are  
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is  
To live a satisfying life filled with love and happiness and to be able to have some one to share it and grow old with.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Documentaries, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs
My Top 3 Tv Shows Are  
Will & Grace / Sex & the City / Golden Girls - I don't watch too much TV :P.
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Horror, Thriller
My Top 3 Movies Are  
The Craft / Garden State / The Hours
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Rock, Pop, Ambient, Dance
My Top 3 Musical Artists Are  
Coldplay / Eisley / Yeah Yeah Yeahs - I LOVE music, mainly pop/rock.
When I Read, I Always Read  
I Don't Like Reading
My Top 3 Books Are  
*Crickets*
My Idea Of Fun Is  
My idea of fun is doing anything that makes me happy. I don't require doing anything super adventurous or extraordinary to be enjoying myself. Dining out, having cocktails, shopping, seeing movies, sitting around listening to music, messing around online, driving around for no reason and having stimulating conversations with friends keep me very entertained.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Money, Spontaneity, Oddities, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?  
Obviously, physical attraction is crucial to having that initial interest and spark with some one. I'm not too particular on physical requirements but I do insist on my suitors to be well groomed and maintain adequate hygiene standards, the closer to my age, the better, the taller, the better and my trend thus far is to stick to dating Caucasian men. Personality is the ultimate key to charming me. I like some one who is polite, well spoken, charming, funny, kind and motivated. I need some one I can joke around with who doesn't get offended easily and who feels comfortable laughing at just about anything; I like some one who is goofy and doesn't mind doing or saying something foolish just to entertain me. I like some one who can have serious conversations when it's necessary, some one who thinks about and appreciates things in life without taking them for granted too often. Some one who values love. Some one who is driven to be successful in all they do and isn't comfortable just skating by.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Date, Committed, Relationship, Marriage
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